If you wish to know what a Dominant/submissive relationship is, or if you feel that D/s is degrading to a woman, I offer this: My Philosophy, to assure you, that in My eyes the opposite is true. D/s involves love, respect and trust by both partners.
I offer these ideals to anyone contemplating D/s as a lifestyle or experimental addition to a relationship. It is of the utmost importance for a submissive to have a clear understanding of not only desires and needs of her Master, but of His motivation and intentions.
THE TENETS of DOMINANCE:
You are a submissive woman. You are not weak or inferior because of it. You are strong of will and heart. You are confident and proud of your feminity. You have thrown away your fears and inhibitions. You share the needs and desires of your heart and body. You have given Me free and complete access to your soul and I embrace your generous service with pride and satisfaction and I accept your submission with personal humility and joy.
I am a Dominant man. I was born with this trait. I am not dominant because of any superiority on my part. I am not dominant because I am more intelligent or wiser than you. I am not dominant because of the strength or mass of my body. I am your Master because you desire the emotional joy of your ancesters and I have earned your trust. We are not equals.. We are parts of a whole. We are partners, counterparts, like the gears of a machine that mesh to produce a functional operation. We each recognize and accept our value to the other and our need for someone to trust and fulfill our desires.
You are born with the instinct to submit. you long to give your body, your unqualified trust and the faithfulness of your heart to your Master and counterpart.. Submission is the evolutionary tool you use to express your feminine power, not because you accept personal inferiority, but to demonstrate your strength and passion. You submit to Me because I have looked into your heart and mind and listened to your words. I have learned to anticipate and fulfill your desires. I understand your emotions and passions. I have earned your trust, and I have opened my heart and soul to you. You flourish in My dominance and your passion is magnificent in my eyes.
I have looked into My own heart and soul and understand My instincts as well. Because I have proven worthy in your eyes, you have given me the one true treasure of your life, your submission. What you give is instinctive, pure and natural. With your submission, you demonstrate complete and unshakable assurance of your commitment to me. Your submission is both a rare gift and a sacred responsibility. I understand the magnificence and purity of this gift. I recognize it is your body and soul, your heart and mind. What you give freely to Me, cannot in reality, be taken by force, or aquired at any price.!
When I see you kneel before me in ritual demonstration of your submission, when I feel your body quake beneath my touch and experience the lust and joy of your unbridled passion, when you walk proudly displaying the symbols of our relationship, in my mind you are exalted above all the treasures of the earth.