A true Dominant possesses the ability to strip his submissive servant's soul bare, but he must accept responsibility for her well-being as she stands naked before Him.
A true submissive is not a passive pawn, she must have the physical and emotional strength to trust, support, and obey her Masters will.
- Below is a short essay describing the traits of a healthy submissive as described by a woman who goes by the pseudonym, ''Yaldah Tovah" (Hebrew for good girl)
- The Healthy Submissive:
"The healthy submissive is capable of, and thrives on, intense, intimate, emotionally open relationships. This is often evident in the number of nourishing, sustaining, and life affirming friendships she makes over the years. The healthy submissive is a giver. She often needs help to ration herself because her impulses nearly always lead her to want to do good for others. The healthy submissive is capable of intense joy, especially in the context of a sustaining relationship. The healthy submissive finds significant relaxation when properly related. She is at ease in that place. The healthy submissive has finely tuned interpersonal sensitivity. She is reactive to subtle shifts in the emotional tone of others. The healthy submissive has a fluidity of self, a flexibility that enables her to adapt to changing circumstances. The healthy submissive is playful. The healthy submissive has no more than the usual cultural conflicts about her body, and its goodness and beauty. The healthy submissive takes pride in her accomplishments. The healthy submissive accepts herself as she is, knowing that while her culture values independence and self sufficiency, she has strong dependency needs and that there is no inherent 'wrongness' about those needs. The healthy submissive seeks nourishing relationships. The healthy submissive, in accepting herself 'as is' is tolerant of others. But neither will she allow anyone to tell her what 'her' truth should be. The healthy submissive has a reasonable self concept, aware of her difficulties as well as her strengths. The healthy submissive hungers to be the object of an intense and penetrating understanding. When her nature is understood and she is held in a loving and firm frame, her devotion is almost limitless. The healthy submissive has an enormous capacity for devotion, from which springs her service"
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